Australian sex workers have a message for women: 'Understand your man'

[maxman]

Australian sex workers have a message for women in relationships: 'Understand your man'

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/rel...fc78048016212e

Summary:

“Men are looking to be understood and be heard. They’re looking for that bit of love that they’re obviously missing. I could open up a school to teach women how to be intimate because there are so many out there that are not giving intimacy to their husbands.”

90% of her clients, ranging in age from 20-45, pay $350 for half an hour to engage in a heightened degree of emotional intimacy.

In some cases, they engage in reciprocal sexual pleasure (girlfriend experiences), but in other cases, they won’t have sex at all (companionship experiences).

The rise of dating apps, specifically an app designed to connect sex workers with clients, Rendevu, are revolutionising the sex work industry as more and more men look for connections outside of their relationship, online and off. The platform helps sex workers and users organise availability, pricing, location and type of services.

“A lot of guys just want to share things they may not be able to share with their wife about personal stuff because their lives are too busy at home with the kids and everything.”

She said that most of her companionship experiences involve “cuddling” and “talking” and conversation can stretch from politics to the world to even their own relationship.

“It takes a while for guys to open up and talk. Men don’t talk about deep issues with each other, they need someone to talk to. They don’t talk to their wives about it, so they talk to the escort. They’ve had some kind of disconnect, for someone to open up to an escort you must think, what happened to your marriage? What kind of marriage do you have? Women have so many different issues they have to deal with, and children can be a big reason for a disconnect.”

Yet she assured, “it doesn't mean they’ve lost interest in their partner, they still want their loving relationship at home”.

And last, but not least: “Don’t hold off on the sex. Always have sex. Learn to enjoy it.”

[maxman]

Related reading:

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/rel...8499384f4e744b

Summary:

Feeling sexually and emotionally disconnected from his wife, the man, in his mid-50s and who goes by the name Bernard*, told news.com.au he spent more than $100,000 on sex workers after he made the decision to sign up to online dating apps including Tinder, along with a site dedicated to Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies.

He said despite not wanting to leave his wife after 25 years of marriage, their relationship had deteriorated to a point where he felt the need to look for an emotional connection elsewhere.

“I still have sex with my wife, but when you’ve been married that long, a lot of women, when they have kids they turn off the tap, it’s never as good as it used to be, it’s not as often as it used to be,” he told news.com.au.

[happyking]

That is indeed quite true .

[TrueBeliever]

Originally Posted by maxman

And last, but not least: “Don’t hold off on the sex. Always have sex. Learn to enjoy it.”

This is very true

[PowderUp]

Originally Posted by TrueBeliever

This is very true

Agreed as well

[HotVolt]

Thanks for sharing nice article

[maxman]

It will be good if more women read the article.

[hil169]

Originally Posted by maxman

It will be good if more women read the article.

They probably may not even come across it much less read it. Somehow i feel that most married women are in denial of sex being an important element of marriage. Instead, sex is only treated as a means for pro creation. Once reproduced, no more sex is needed.

[Fwest123]

Originally Posted by hil169

They probably may not even come across it much less read it. Somehow i feel that most married women are in denial of sex being an important element of marriage. Instead, sex is only treated as a means for pro creation. Once reproduced, no more sex is needed.

Feel like it's an Asian cultural thing to be honest..

The old couples I met on my travels in the West are still going at it strong despite being in their 50s. Not a sight I want to imagine but still

[FreakingPartner]

Originally Posted by hil169

They probably may not even come across it much less read it. Somehow i feel that most married women are in denial of sex being an important element of marriage. Instead, sex is only treated as a means for pro creation. Once reproduced, no more sex is needed.

This is very true, especially in Asian countries

[paperstones]

TS thanks for sharing

[adonis]

A$350 for 1/2 hour with a FL girl in Australia. Really short time. Does it include the motel room?